What a tale my thoughts could tell

This is Playground in My Mind. If you could read my thought, love, these are some of my words unspoken nor wandering. Just like an old time movie, to reminisce and not to drift away from life

Friday, December 30, 2011

Year 2012 friendship contract renewal


RENEWAL OF FRIENDSHIP CONTRACT 2012
After serious and cautious consideration,
your contract has been renewed for the Year 2012.
So, try to be more LOVING and CARING next year.
Take care of Me and Miss me.
Because, It’s impossible to find a FRIEND
Who is
95% ideal
96% smart
97% kind
98% true
99% Talented
and
100% lovable
So,
Don’t lose WHOM U NEVER WANT TO LOSE.
Wish you a Very Happy New Year

Thursday, December 29, 2011

30-12-56

Kepada ibu yang telah melahirkanku,,
Maaf, krn ku blm bisa mengukir bahagia diwajah tua mu..
Maaf, krn ku blm bisa menanam bangga dalam hati mu..
Maaf, untuk smua air mata yg kau tumpahkan karna ku..
Maaf, krn ku blm mampu menghapus beban ditubuh lelahmu..
IBU... Terima Kasih untuk cinta dan doa'mu untuk ku..
Sekali lagi maafkan aku... Maaaf...

Selamat hari ulang tahun mama,

mudah2an bisa umroh thn depan ya maa...insya allah

Happy Birthdays MOM!!

Thanks for all the support that you have given to me. Thank you for being such a kind and loving Mother. Words are not enough to express the gratitude that you deserve for all that you have done for us throughout the years. Happy birthday to an awesome mom and a great friend.. Send all the best wishes & prayers  !

Simple Lessons in Life We Can Learn From Children




 



“Out of the mouths of babes”. Isn’t that just so true? Children have a freedom of expression that we as adults can only wish for. As well as the ability to speak honestly and call a spade a spade, children can enjoy a simple view of life not yet jaded by adult experiences.

Adults often believe that children should listen to their elders to learn about life.
We should all broaden our minds and study some of the lessons in life that we can learn from children – you’d be surprised as to how relevant they are to us all. 

1. Be yourself, and not anyone else

Children are completely unique. Even twins and triplets are always forging their own individual identities, but unfortunately as adults we can often fall into the trap of trying to be someone that we are not. People should learn to like you for who you are, not for what you think they want you to be – the right person in your life will appreciate the authentic you, not a manufactured copy of someone else.

2. Smile!

Children are the happiest human beings on the planet, regardless of their situation and surroundings. Adults are far too caught-up in the problems in the world that they forget to just smile and be a happy, positive person – if you learn a lesson in life from a kid, it’s that you really should smile more.

3. Skip

Yes, skip. It’s one of the best ways to relieve the stress that you’ve accumulated after a hard day at work, even if it’s seen as socially unacceptable for adults. Who cares? Not me! Skipping is not only a fun and fast way of getting around, but helps you to exercise and aids your mood. People might look at you a little strangely, but hey – you’re happy!

4. Make friends

One of the lessons in life that we can learn from those younger than us is how to make friends easily. You need to stop worrying about how people perceive you and just form friendships. Whether you are at the supermarket or the canteen at work, potential friends are all around you. It has been said a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet.

5. Take a nap

I envy the fact that children can lay down on the sofa and just fall asleep. As an insomniac, I have always found it hard to sleep at night – the perfect solution was formed when I learnt that I can take a short nap during the day to help revitalize me. Not only does it help to sooth your tiredness, you’ll feel great afterwards.

6. Sing some more

We all forget how great singing is. It’s the simplest lessons in life we learn that can make us the happiest, with singing being the simplest of them all. When you are feeling stressed, or just have the inclination to burst out in song do it! You don’t even have to sing out-loud, but humming and whistling works just as well. Belting out your favorite tunes as you shower or bath in the morning – you’ll be surprised by how it makes a great start to your day.

7. Take risks

A great thing about children is that they are able to take risks without worrying about the long-term consequences. Doing whatever you feel like without necessarily thinking it through will make you feel young again, removing any of the boredom that you may face during the day.

8. Explore

One of the lessons in life that children can teach us is that we need to continue to explore throughout our life Mentally, physically and emotionally, you can explore everything around you. Going for a walk in the forest and pondering the great questions of life can help you to relax and feel young.

About Passport & Visa


Travelers from all over know how essential is it to have the proper visa and passport documentation when travelling, and how difficult it could be to negotiate should you arrive at your destination with the incorrect, or incomplete documentation. The official documentation is granted as a Visa, affording you the proper permission to travel through their country, and ideally, it allows the government of the country in question, to know who is travelling in and out of their domain. Here is the  Essential Travel  about Passports and Visas.

1. Passports

Before you start the Visa Application process, you may want to haul your passport out of the back of the cupboard and dust it off. Ascertain if you need to renew your passport, as it is a lengthy process, and you could be without your passport for a few weeks, even months, and you can’t apply for a visa without one. Also for most international travel, officials require a certain amount of pages to be empty, if you have one empty page open in your passport, but it only expires in 2 years time, you will still need to renew it.

2. Getting the Right Visa

Every single country has their own policies and procedures when it comes to issuing visas. Depending on what passport you are travelling on, and your nationality, the country that you intend to travel to, will receive your information completely differently to all other nationalities. Also if you are travelling for work, business or pleasure, they will issue you a visa, based on your requirements and the length of your stay. Some visas are more difficult to get than others, and in some cases the application procedures can be lengthy and frustrating. You will need to contact the Embassy directly of the country you plan on visiting for all the exact information you need.

3. Countries that Don’t Require a Visa

There can be no substitute for your own research, don’t rely on scattered information given by well meaning friends over drinks. Not all countries require a visa from all travelers, depending again on extensive rules and requirements. Visa requirements for travelers is updated constantly so relying on year old information from that friend of a friend who travelled there, then passed through that place where you are going to is going to land you in hot water. If you find the contacting the Embassy route frustrating, and you have a bit of extra cash, it may be worth contacting professional visa companies that will be abreast of the latest information.

4. What Information You Need to Provide

After you have contacted an Embassy, or Visa company, you will be provided with, or given a link to download, a serious amount of pages or forms you will need to complete in full. Be prepared to provide certified proof of everything, so if you don’t have that already, go and save time and get it now. All copies of birth certificates, or other identification documents, letters from your place of work, proof of residence, bank statements, travel documents, itinerary, everything needs to be an original where possible, and certified. You will be asked in most cases for proof of fully paid for air ticket and accommodation in the destination country.

5. Be Organized and Over Prepared

When preparing your documents for Visa approval, take into account that visa offices or Embassy’s have thousands of visas and documents to process daily and that yours is not the only one. Visa officials are not going to be sympathetic to a traveler issuing them with incomplete, disorganized documentation. Make their job easier; and make the visa process less stressful, it is that simple. Have backup copies of everything, in duplicate, correlated, easy to locate and neat, so that in the event that your documents are lost or damaged, you can provide another copy immediately.

6. Photographs and Fees

In most cases these days, a simple piece of paper is not enough identification for customs officials and you may need to provide photographs of yourself within strict specifications, in some cases, there are only a few certified places that visa will accept photographs from. The color, size and amount of photos required will vary from country to country. Visa fees can also start costing a lot of money, find out well in advance how much all the documentation is going to cost to certify, and all the visa registration fees, as in most cases the fees are non-refundable.

7. Travelling through a Country without a Visa

If you are taking connecting flights and passing through airports of foreign countries where you will not be actually disembarking your flight, you may not need a visa at all. This could save a lot of money if you are passing through a few airports. However, you are able to get a transit visa for instance, if you are travelling through Dubai, for 96 hours. Airlines like Emirates organize the visa on behalf of their passengers; other airline passengers will need to apply for one. This comes in handy if you are in transit for 10 hours or so, and want to grab a meal, a shower and a cup of coffee.

8. Visas on Arrival

There are some cases that countries will happily issue visas as travelers arrive at customs, for a fee of course. However, the potential pitfalls here are enormous and unless you are a seasoned traveler and have been through that exact route more than once before; it is not recommended at all. Currency, cultural and language issues make this scenario a potential disaster of epic proportions. Make the necessary arrangements well in advance and unhappy surprises when you are put back on your plane home will only ruin your entire trip.

9. When to Apply for Your Visa

For those super organized travelers, well you are not going to like this one bit. Organizing too far in advance is just as detrimental to leaving it all to the last minute. Some visas are valid from the date of issue and you could find yourself with an expired visa before you have dusted off your suitcase. If the processing time for the visa in question is a lengthy one you can approach a visa company to assist you or ask the Embassy in question about their express services for visas. Although they are not cheap, you may need to spend the extra money here.

10. What Happens if Your Visa Expires while You Are on Holiday

Don’t panic just yet, they don’t send officials on a man hunt to locate and detain you if your visa expires at lunch time. There is sometimes a window of grace, and depending on the country it varies from days to months. If you are on a transit visa and appear at customs 3 months later, you could find yourself with a serious headache, and very possibly will not be allowed back into the country for a few months, possibly never again. Nobody wants that dark cloud following them around on holiday, do your homework, extensively, and you will have a great time.

Past Present

The only things that should take us back to the past are the memories we made with the people that were in our lives in our pasts. What should bring us forward are our own dreams for our future. In order to set legitimate, and real goals for our future we must in a sense, forget about the past. We can't let mistakes or regrets from our pasts drive us forward in our lives. 

Many of us have heard the saying; we can't drive forward looking in the rear-view mirror. Meaning it is impossible to focus on progress if we are always looking back at things we wished we have done, or things that we may wish we would have done in different ways. If we try to move forward based off of our regrets, our vision will be clouded, and our forward progress will be greatly limited. Remember to set your dreams upon what you really want for yourself in life, and not what could have been.

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

No one might know when I'm feeling sad because I'm really good at hiding it at times.


I miss you a little, I guess you could say, a little too much, a little too often, and a little more each day.

I tried to lie, deny, ignore, delude. But I can't lie to myself. How can I deny these feelings. Its hard to ignore, I can't delude my heart.
As I see loving couples everywhere, I look down and smile to myself, wondering where's the one for me out there.
It takes fate for two person to meet. It takes destiny for two person who're meant to be. And its takes hard work for everything in between.
When you truly care for someone, their mistakes never change your feelings because it's the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares.
Loving someone the same even when the other person doesn't feel the same. Thats love.
Even if both our hearts don't fit, the love I feel for you is still immensely rich.
I wonder how many heartbreaks do I have to endure before I meet the right person.
Believe that in time to come, you'll be fine again. It might take a long time, but eventually, everything will be okay.

People x Books

People are like storybooks. Some have nice covers, boring content. Some have ugly covers, good content. And some just keeps you reading on.

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

I'm Just A girl

When a girl tells you about her problems it does not mean that she's complaining. She trusts you...but, The worst feeling is when someone makes you feel special, then suddenly leaves you hanging, and you have to act like you don't care at all...It’s tough when someone special starts to ignore you, but it’s even tougher when you have to pretend that you don’t mind....so,I wish you would tell me why you changed your mind about having feelings for me. I wish I had the guts to ask....but then, If a girl asks you a question, it's better to just give her the truth, chances are she's asking you because she already knows the answer...When I reply to you with one word answers it means I'm mad at you. Then you're supposed to ask me what's wrong and I'll tell you. Now matter how strong a girl is, she has a weak point and sometimes all she needs is a hug and someone to tell her it's alright,...and I don't want a perfect person, You know what I think hurts the most? The feeling of being replaced. It’s like no matter what you did, it wasn’t enough. A guy can make you think he loves you, but he really doesn’t. A girl can make you think she doesn’t love you, when she really does. Maybe the reason why you have to stop loving a person is because fate chose both of you to be friends, when forever is a lot more possible.... The worst thing you can do for love is deny it; so when you find that special someone, don't let anyone or anything to get in your way. I just want someone to act silly with, someone who treats me well & loves being with me more than anything....thus, I won't force myself to have space in your life. Because if you know my worth, you'll create one for me...so i realize...Sometimes someone comes into your life that changes everything. Raises your standards, makes you laugh, and makes you feel like you...and await, Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else.

insomnia

A good life is when you assume nothing, do more, smile often, dream big, laugh a lot, & realize how blessed you are for what you have. Never hate, live simply, expect a little, give a lot, always smile, live with love, and be with God; the recipe to happiness. Pain makes you stronger. Tears makes you braver. Heartbreak makes you wiser. So thank the past for a better future.

Consious

I think that you find your own way. You have your own rules. You have your own understanding of yourself, and that’s what you’re going to count on. In the end, it’s what feels right to you. Not what your mother told you. Not what some actor or politician told you. Not what anybody else told you but the still, small voice.

Be yourself and stay unique.

 Your imperfections make you beautiful, lovable, and valuable. They show your personality.


Sunday, December 25, 2011

Woman Are,,,,

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape … but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape… A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything … but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear… A strong woman won’t let anyone get the best of her … but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone… A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future… a woman of strength realizes life’s mistakes can also be God’s blessings and capitalizes on them… A strong woman walks sure foetidly … but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls… A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face … but a woman of strength wears grace… A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey … but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong… a strong woman is one who gets her heart broken time and time again and still has the strength to gather the pieces to create a new life for herself. Remember that no matter what pain you’ve been through, tears will dry, broken hearts will heal, and somewhere out there the person who truly cares is waiting. you’re a woman and you are strong.

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Aku wanita

Saat ia marah, Sebenarnya ia hanya ingin didekati. Ia tidak marah, hanya saja ia teramat membutuhkanmu. Jika ia beranikan diri menampakan seraut wajah cemburu, itupun hanya usahanya untuk melukiskan ketakutannya. Saat tutur katanya meninggi, Itu bukan pembelaan, hanya seutas kejujuran. Perhatikanlah, memang ia senantiasa ingin dihargai.. Namun ketahuilah hatinya tetap menanti. Maka bersabarlah, Saat ia berisik, mungkin hatinya terusik Pahamilah dengan kelembutan, agar kelembutannya tetap terjaga dan melembutkanmu. Kadang ia hanya mampu diam, Menyembunyikan hujan di tepian istana hatinya. Kadang ia tersenyum seperti tegar, sekedar menyembunyikan kerapuhan.. Laksana segenggam rumput halus yang berbisik dibelai angin, Ia lemah, namun tidak mudah patah. Ia akan tetap menari meski nanti angin berubah menjadi badai.. Dalam keanggunan itu sesungguhnya terdapat kekuatan Ia tidak mudah berubah, akarnya tetap mencengkram menguatkan sang pohon yang menaunginya. Ia bukun rumput yang hina, Ia adalah wanita yang dimuliakan dalam Islam. Segenggam rumput halus, yang butuh pohon untuk ia bersandar.

Cukup

Cukuplah Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala sebagai pelindungku.. Cukuplah Rasulullah Shallallahu A'laihi Wasallam sebagai suri Tauladan ku.. Cukuplah Islam sebagai Agama ku.. Cukuplah Al Qur'an & Assunah sebagai panduan hidup.. Cukuplah Surga atau Neraka sebagai balasan ku.. Cukuplah Shalat & sabar sebagai penyemangat hidup ku..
In our world today we are lead to believe from society's influence that a woman's beauty is usually characterized by how she may appear on the exterior. Women are taught from a young age by the media and culture period that make-up and hair must be done nicely, clothes must be sexy, and bodies must be flawless in order to be considered to be beautiful. We all get caught up in these false qualifications of beauty, and fail to realize that the true qualification of a woman's beauty or anyone's beauty for that matter relies on the person they are at their heart's level.

Friday, December 23, 2011

cozy place to be around

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Alone

I Have Learnt.. I Came Alone And I Have To Go Alone.. I Have Learnt.. Some People Are With You Only When They Need You,Not Otherwise.. I Have Learnt.. If You Care For Someone Too Much You Will Be Hurt And Ultimately Blamed .. I Have Learnt.. A Simple Lie Of Your Close One Can Break You More Than Anythng.. I Have Learnt.. Its Hard To Weep Alone When There Is No Shoulder For Support.. ULTIMATELY, I Have Learnt.. Love Someone But Not So Much That You Forget Too Keep Some Love For Yourself. .

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Arti cinta sebenarnya

Datanglah kepada seseorang yang dapat membuatmu tersenyum, karena sebuah senyuman dapat membuat hari yang gelap menjadi cerah
seseorang gadis bertanya kepada kekasihnya: Gadis : Apakah aku pernah terlintas dalam pikiranmu? jejaka : tidak Gadis: Apakah kamu benar- benar menyukaiku? jejaka : tidak Gadis: Apakah kamu menginginkanku? jejaka : tidak Gadis: apakah kamu menangis, jika aku pergi? jejaka : tidak Gadis: maukah kamu hidup untukku? jejaka : tidak Maukah kamu berbuat apa saja untukku? jejaka : tidak Gadis: Pilih aku atau hidupmu jejaka : Hidupku Gadis itu berlari pergi dan merasakan sakit, dan lelaki itu berlari setelahnya dan berkata........ Alasan mengapa aku tidak pernah memikirkanmu, adalah karna kamu sllu dalam pikiranku alasan mengapa aku tidak menyukaimu, karena aku mencintaimu alasan mengapa aku tidak menginginkanmu adalah karena aku membutuhkanmu alasan mengapa aku tidak akan menangis jika kamu pergi karena aku bisa mati jika kamu pergi alasan mengapa aku tidak ingin hidup untukmu karena aku akan mati untukmu alasan mengapa aku tidak akan berbuat apapun untukmu, karena aku akan berbuat segalanya untukmu alasan mengapa aku memilih hidup, adalah KARENA KAMU HIDUPKU........ ( indah bukan jika benar ada cinta seperti ini)

A Great Relationship

A Great Relationship Happens When Two People Who Truly Understand Each Other and Love Each Other for Who They Are Come Together and Create Something Stronger Than Either of Them Could Ever Be on Their Own

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Ethics is overlooked

Sorry, thank you, please
These three words often forget we speak to people around. It would be better to use the word "please" when asking office boy or household assistants to do something for us. So well afterwards, said thank you often forget to say. It sounded trivial, but the person who asked for help would feel more appreciated if you want to say please and thank you.

When brushed in shopping centers or accidentally stepping on toes when coincide on the bus, often seen people turned away without saying the only apology. No one harmed during spoken word apology, which are just feeling more calm. The word sorry is a word that is simple but often difficult to pronounce. Do not eaten prestige as say the word sorry. It can help you improve your relationships with others or make a more peaceful atmosphere.

Staring eyes
Common sight at this time is, someone looked at his cell phone when talking with others. Try to always look the other person while talking or giving instructions. Pause for a moment the activity in your mobile phone while talking to someone. Staring at the other person will make them feel more appreciated. If it is a response on your cell phone can not be postponed, it should communicate with the speaker. Say "Sorry I have to answer this important SMS first," and after that continue the conversation.

Hold the door
This is a very simple action that shows you respect others. When about to exit or enter through the door, try to hold doors for people behind you. This small act of showing you the attention and respect other people around.

Sign in elevator
Even in the luxury office, the scene is often the case. Someone straight into the lift when not everyone in the elevator exit. Actions like this would make the process out of the elevator longer because there are people who blocked out. Instead, wait until everyone else out of your new entry into the elevator. That way everyone is comfortable and does not need to have someone who annoyed and swore that hampered the way out.

Give your seat
Often times passengers are still able to stand looking seats that should be given to the more needy. Although these lessons since elementary school has been given, but still it is still a lot of people forget about it. Pregnant women, the elderly, disabled, and children should be given priority to get a seat. Even in some public transport is no sign for it. Some friends even confessed often pretended to be asleep in order to remain seated even though there are more needy.

Position yourself as the person, if you feel like to sit down when carrying heavy luggage, there is nothing wrong with giving seats to people who carry heavy luggage when meeting in public service vehicles.

Queue
Rushing is not a reason to cut in line with various tricks. If there is a bunch of people waiting in front of the elevator, you can not arbitrarily grab the next to get their turn. Not only are you in this world are in a hurry. Respect other people around. You certainly annoyed if your queue appropriated. Do not do the same in others.

Introducing a friend
Sometimes we forget to introduce our friends with new friends when you meet somewhere. If you go with the mother, then met a friend, your mother kenalkanlah to a friend. Likewise, when you go with someone else. Recommend your friends and relations. For example, "this introduce Adam, my brother" or "this introduced Dina, a friend of my office". The little things make a friend or partner we feel appreciated for its existence acknowledged. Besides opening a new friendship is a good thing.

Busy with phone
At an important meeting or worship, do not forget to set the sound of your cell phone so as not to disturb. If it does not really matter you should not pick up incoming calls when you're in important meetings. Ask permission first and then leave the room if they have to pick up the phone.

So also with the tone of voice, try to not talk out loud while you are in public places like malls, offices, or schools. The presence of the smart phone makes a lot of people are now divided his attention to the activity being performed. When are worship should keep your phone firmly in the bag. Do not also make a friend or your parents upset by continuing to play a mobile phone while talking to them.

Greet
We met a neighbor, give a friendly greeting. Do not apply pretended not to notice when cross paths with people you know. Build good relationships with just a simple reprimand. You never know when it will require the person. Because it does not hurt to build good relations with the actions of a small but berart

Monday, December 12, 2011

Mensyukuri

#MENSYUKURI NIKMAT pasti ditambah berkalilipat di Duniakhirat..
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#MENSYUKURI KEGAGALAN pasti اللّهُ Limpahkan Kekuatan Tuk meraih KEBERHASILAN yg membanggakan...

Sunday, December 11, 2011

I only wanna be with one person. I don't have the energy to maintain multiple relationships. I want to focus on & satisfy one individual.


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Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Smartphone :: Apple & Android

Interface
I would never call the row-of-icons interface on the iPhone 4S fresh, but its ease of use means a lot, especially to first-time smartphone owners. And iOS 5 catches up to Android with its Notifications area, which is cleanly designed and dynamic (thanks to the addition of weather and stock info).
However, some Android phones let you do more from the notification area. On the Samsung Galaxy S II, for example, you can toggle the wireless radios on and off. And on HTC Sense phones, you can switch between apps from this menu as well as tweak several settings. The other edge Android has in the interface department is widgets, which let you access all sorts of info at a glance. Indeed, Google's OS is so customizable that the user experience can vary drastically from one phone to the next.
Winner: iPhone 4S. While Android is more flexible, it can also be more confusing. Simplicity wins this round.
Multitasking
Just as with the iPhone 4, it's easy to switch between apps on the iPhone 4S. You just double-press the home button and swipe to either side. To shut down apps, you press and hold the screen and then tap the X next to an app's icon. Because most apps are suspended when they're not open, you don't really need to worry about them zapping battery life.
Today on Android, you must long-press the home button, but you might only see a subset of all of your running apps—and you can't close programs from this view. Android Ice Cream Sandwich will offer a better user experience, with a Recent Apps button that displays live thumbnails of your running apps. And you'll be able to dismiss apps with a swipe.
Winner: iPhone 4S. But it looks like Android 4.0 will put Google's phones ahead.
Screen Size and Quality
One of the chief complaints people have about the screen in the iPhone 4S is that it's the same size as the original iPhone's: 3.5 inches. But what many don't realize is that this LCD's resolution is higher than the vast majority of Android phones. The display is not only crisper but brighter than most of the Android competition.
On the other hand, bigger screens are just easier on the eyes, and they don't force you to zoom in as much to read text. And although they're not as bright, the Super AMOLED displays on phones such as the Galaxy S II and the Droid RAZR offer better contrast and more vibrant colors, making them great for watching movies. The upcoming Samsung Galaxy Nexus will up the ante on with the first HD display (1280 x 720 pixels).
Winner: Draw. The iPhone 4S has the superior display right now in terms of detail and brightness, but some shoppers just prefer a larger screen.
Keyboard/Typing
Amazingly, Apple's multitouch keyboard remains second to none, despite the fact that in most cases you're typing on a smaller display. Both in portrait mode and landscape mode, I can type quickly and accurately. I'll certainly make more errors than when using a physical keyboard, but overall the iPhone 4S keyboard just works.
With Android phones, keyboards vary quite a bit from one phone maker to the next. Generally speaking, I've found HTC's keyboards to be the best, with Android's stock keyboard on the Samsung Galaxy S 4G being a close second. But Android has a few advantages. One is that you can download third-party keyboards, such as Swype, from the Android Market. Second, only Android phones come with physical keyboards, though they seem to be a dying breed.
Winner: Draw. The iPhone 4S keyboard is great for its size, but some prefer a bigger screen and more customization options.
Web and Data Speeds
The iPhone 4S may have a fancy new dual-antenna system and the ability to reach 14.4 Mbps (theoretically) on AT&T, but it gets blown away by 4G Android phones. For example, the AT&T iPhone 4S delivered speeds as high as 5.3 Mbps but averaged 2.2 Mbps. Both the T-Mobile Galaxy SII (12.6 Mbps) and the Motorola Droid Bionic (11.6 Mbps) are faster.
In terms of loading web pages, we’ve seen a huge real-world difference as well. The iPhone 4S takes about 10 seconds to load many mobile sites (regardless of the network) versus about half that for true 4G phones. Everything on an iPhone 4S that involves data will require more patience than on an 4G Android phone, whether it’s streaming YouTube videos or updating your Facebook news feed. The only caveat is that 4G radios (especially LTE) can drain your battery in a hurry.
Winner: Android. 4G speeds make a big difference in everyday use.
Social Networking
Apple is making a big deal about Twitter integration with iOS 5, and it’s certainly welcome. You can share photos, websites, and more with just a couple of taps. However, Android goes deeper by including Facebook, as well as pretty much any other service that uses Android’s APIs.
For example, you don’t have to use Twitter on Android; you can use Tweetdeck instead. Android also works with Evernote, Flickr, GroupMe, LinkedIn—you name it. We just wish the Sharing option wasn’t two clicks away from the browser page.
Winner: Android. The iPhone 4S makes it easy to share stuff on Twitter, but you need to use dedicated apps for everything else.
Camera
Apple has raised the bar for photo quality—both in terms of speed and low-light performance—with the iPhone 4S, thanks to new optics and an improved backside illuminated sensor. It also captures sharp and smooth 1080p video. Android phones such as the Galaxy S II are only a step behind in terms of speed, though, and they take equally good photos outdoors.
While the iPhone 4S has an HDR feature, there’s not much else you can do when taking photos. An advanced Android phone such as the Amaze 4G has a panorama mode, HDR, burst shot mode, and more. And although the iPhone 4S has some editing features, the best Android phones go further, letting you add all sorts of effects without using a separate app.
Winner: Draw. The iPhone 4S has the best camera we’ve used yet, but Android phones give you more control of your images—before and after the shot.
Apps
After trailing iOS for years, Android is finally catching up to Apple in terms of the sheer number of apps available in their respective stores. Apple has about 360,000 iPhone apps, compared to approximately 320,000 for Android (according to research firm Research2Guidance). You’ll also find that both app stores stock a lot of the same stuff, from Angry Birds and Words with Friends to Kindle and Pandora.
But if you dig deeper, you’ll find that the iPhone 4S has a better selection of high-quality games with more impessive graphics, such as Infinity Blade and Shadowgun. You’ll also find that apps either come to the iPhone first (such as Netflix) or exclusively (such as Instagram) and just look more polished (Facebook).
Winner: iPhone 4S. The iPhone has always been known for its apps, and at least for now it still has a quality and slight quantity edge.
Secret Weapons
Only the iPhone 4S has Siri, a fantastic voice-controlled assistant that can help you with everything from scheduling appointments to sending messages. Other advantages unique to the iPhone 4S include iTunes; Google only offers a subset of Apple's content. And then there’s iCloud, which does a better job than Google of keeping all of your content in sync across multiple devices. Last but not least is the iPhone’s vast number of available accessories. Having a single standard connector makes things a lot easier on makers of add-ons.
Android has plenty of unique strengths as well. In addition to offering 4G speeds, only Android has free GPS navigation built in. And only Android phones support NFC, which enables mobile payments and will gain even more power with Ice Cream Sandwich. With the beam feature you’ll be able to share all sorts of info with a tap.
Winner: iPhone 4S. Siri + more content + more accessories give Apple the win in this round.
Bottom Line
Android phones won five points, but the iPhone 4S took home seven -- making this head to head appear to be a decisive victory for the iPhone 4S. But it really comes down to what you value most in a smartphone. If it’s ease of use and better apps you’re after—as well as smooth performance and a great camera—the iPhone 4S can’t be beat. Siri takes smartphones to the next level by serving your needs with real intelligence. As long as you can live with 3G speeds, you can’t go wrong with the iPhone 4S.
On the other hand, the fact that Android phones offer 4G should not be overlooked. It speeds up practically everything you do. Android also integrates with multiple social networks—instead of just Twitter—and you have a wider range of design choices. If you like the idea of customizing your interface to your heart’s content and want the option of a bigger screen, Android is the way to go.


Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/scitech/2011/10/26/iphone-4s-vs-android-phones-whats-better-for/#ixzz1flagGxx6

Pernikahan itu,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

1. Act speaks louder than word. Perhatikan kesungguhan cinta pasangan bukan hanya dari berapa banyak frekuensinya mengatakan “I love you” dalam sehari, tapi seberapa besar pembuktian cintanya dalam perbuatan, seperti keinginannya untuk mendengarkan segala uneg-uneg kita, menelepon jika kita pulang terlambat, mau menjelaskan dengan sabar jika ada sesuatu yang kita nggak mengerti, hingga memeluk kita sesering mungkin tanpa harus ada occasion atau alasan tertentu.

2. Menikah bukanlah sebuah bentuk pengekangan. Itu sebabnya, calon pasangan yang baik adalah yang bukan mengisolasi kita dari lingkungan pergaulan yang sudah sekian lama akrab dengan kita, justru ia malah berusaha mengenal teman, keluarga, dan tentunya orangtua kita.

3. Menikahlah dengan seseorang yang membuat kita bahagia. Bahagia di sini bukan berarti ia harus mampu menghadiahi kita dengan materi, namun lebih pada bagaimana kehadirannya berefek pada diri kita sendiri. Bila pasanganmu adalah seseorang yang bisa membuatmu lebih percaya diri, lebih mampu berpikiran positif, dan selalu punya cara untuk membuatmu tertawa, then he’s the man.

4. Bila ia bisa menghargai orang lain dengan respek, maka bisa diyakinkan ia juga mampu menghargaimu dengan sepantasnya. Maka, perhatikan kebiasaan calon pasangan dalam kehidupan sehari-hari, seperti mengucapkan terima kasih saat mendapat pelayanan baik di tempat umum atau menyertakan kata “tolong” setiap kali meminta bantuan padamu atau orang lain.

5. Mariage is all about sharing. Bukan hanya berbagi hidup, tapi juga tanggung jawab dan kewajiban. Perhatikan bagaimana kesungguhan calon pasangan untuk membantu mengasuh anak dan berbagai tugas rumah tangga kelak dengan melihat kerelaannya untuk melakukan tugas domestik saat berpacaran.

6. Kamu menikahi seseorang yang mencintaimu, bukan yang melarangmu atas banyak hal. Ia bisa jadi adalah pasangan yang tepat untuk dinikahi karena selama berpacaran pun, kamu nggak pernah diwajibkan untuk selalu berada di dekatnya. Biar bagaimanapun, kita tetap membutuhkan waktu untuk menikmati kesendirian atau personal space, dan pasangan yang baik adalah yang sama sekali nggak keberatan dengan hal tersebut

Monday, December 5, 2011

HEY YOU



yeah you. . stop being Unhappy with yourself...
you are perfect
stop wishing you looked like someone else
or wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else
stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you
stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks. love them!!
without those things you wouldn't be you and why would you want to be anyone else?
be confident with who you are. .
smile. .!!
it will draw people in
if anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself
then you stick your middle finger in the air & say screw it. .
my happiness will not depend on others anymore. .
i'm happy cuz i'm i love who i'm. .
i love my flaws. .
i love my imperfections...
they make me. .
ME. . n "ME" is pretty amazing =

woman huMAN life

I Was Born,a Woman Was There To Hold Me
''My Mother''
I Grew as a Child,a Woman Was There To Care For Me, To Play With Me
''My Sister''
I Went To School,a Woman Was There To Help Me Learn
''My Teacher''
I Became Depressed, Whenever I Lost,a Woman Was There To Offer a Shoulder
''My Wife''
I Became Tough,a Woman Was There To Melt Me
''My Daughter''
I Am Dying,a Woman Is There To Absorb Me
''My MotherLand''

Drink & Drive

I went to a party Mom,
I remembered what you said.
U told me not to drink,
Mom,So I drank soda instead.

I really felt proud inside, Mom,
The way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom,
Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,
I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom,
As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,
I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me,
So responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom,
But as I pulled out into the road,
The other car didn't see me, Mom,
And hit me like a load.:(

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,
I hear the policeman say,
"The other guy is drunk," Mom,
And now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom....
I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom?
My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom,
And most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom,
I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,
I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom.
The others didn't think.

He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank
And I will die.
Why do people drink, Mom?
It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now.
Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,
And I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying
And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.
Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom,
Put "GOOD BOY " on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,
Not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom,
I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.
I'm becoming very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom.
When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.
Before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive,
So why am I the one to die?

Just Saying..

♥....Whєи ι Tαlk Wιth U,
... ι Kиow Thє мєαиιиg Oƒ
Uиdєяstαиdιиg.. ..♥
... ♥....Whєи ι Lαugh Wιth U,
ι Kиow Thє мєαиιиg Oƒ
... hαρριиєss....♥
... ...
♥....Whєи ι Touсh U,
ι Kиow Thє мєαиιиg Oƒ
Togєthєяиєss... .♥
&
♥....Whєиєvєя ι'м Wιth You,♥
ι Kиow Thє мєαиιиg Oƒ LOVє. .♥♥

Somewhere in between

Somewhere in the middle of those conversation..
i started to care about you
Being from strangers to friends..
then from gossips to sharing secrets..
Don't know when i started to like u..
Frm those arguments to fights..
frm those likes to dislikes..from laughs to cries..
I did share many beautiful moments with u..
Somewhere in middle of those conversation...i fell in luv with u..
Don't know how d time passed..
for hours our conversations used to last..
n today it has been ages we talked..
Now u have someone by ur side..
tomorrow i would be someone else's bride
So today i wanna tell u
Did was something i did,,,"hide"..
Yeah somewhere in the middle of those conversation...i fell in luv with u..
& for the rest of my life..i will cherish my relation with u

little Thing

wont say "I'll never make u cry"
But I'll make u smile before your tears get dry. .

I wont say "I'll never tell u a lie;
But If I do, I do it for a reason, some day I'll tell u why. .

I don't say "we'll never have a fight";
But I'll say I'm really sorry when I realize u were right. .

I don't say "Life together will be. . easy & bright"
But when things get tough. .
I'll hold u tight to me. .

I got nothing more to say,
I got nothing more to prove. .
But Always remember. .

A Speechless ♥

Message With Deep
Feelings !♥!

Both Are Quiet,
But Have Hundreds of
Things Running InMind. . !!

Both Are Missing Each
other Badly,
But Want The other
one To Initiate The
Conversation. .!! =|

Both Want To B With
Each other, To Fight, To
Argue, To Show Love,

But Would Pretend That
They Are Fine Without
Each other. .♥ =(

Both Want To Meet
Each other,
But Will Not Say
Anything And Wait
Silently. .!!

They Would Send Each
other Silly Messages,
But Would Not Tell
Them: 'Stupid I am
Missing U. ."

This Is Love. .♥
Sometimes We Miss out
on Most Loveable
Moments,

Jst B'coz We Want D
other one To Take D
First Step. .!! =/

Showing Love Might
Improve The Situation,
But Showing Ego
Definetely Ruins It. . ♥ !!

“IT’S JUST NOT ABOUT SEX”

Selama ini, banyak orang yang percaya bahwa seks dapat menjadi obat bagi hubungan yang hambar. Tapi kenyataannya tidak demikian, karena suatu ikatan dapat bertahan tanpa harus menjadikan seks sebagai solusi setiap masalah.

Gimana sih caranya ??

1. Dekatilah diri anda dengan pasangan, coba rangkul pasangan saat menonton tv, atau berilah pijatan saat anda berdua tengah bersantai. Buatlah suasang menjadi nyaman, sehingga kemesraanpun akan terwujud

2. Kembalilah berkencan, seperti pada saat anda mengajak pasangan anda untuk berkencan. Cari tempat – tempat romantis dan menyenangkan.

3. Lakukanlah hal – hal yang belum atau sudah lama tidak anda dan pasangan lakukan.

4. Jangan lupa untuk memberikan kecupan selamat malam di kening pasangan anda. Hal itu akan membangkitkan rasa betapa anda mencintai pasangan anda

5. Bangkitkan kemesraan dengan mengirimkan surat yang berisikan perasaan cinta anda terhadap dirinya.

Selamat mencoba, dan hidupkan lagi kemesraan di tengah hubungan anda!!!

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Adele - Someone Like You

I heard
That you're settled down
That you
Found a girl
And you're
Married now

I heard
That your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things
I didn't give to you

Old friend
Why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back
Or hide from the light

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead."
Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead,
Yeah.

You know how the time flies
Only yesterday
It was the time of our lives
We were born and raised
In a summer haze
Bound by the surprise
Of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead."

Nothing compares
No worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes
They are memories made.
Who would have known
How bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead"

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead"

Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead
‎|♥| SOmetimes in life, yOu find a special friend.
SOmeOne whO changes your life just by being part of it.

SOmeOne whO makes yOu laugh until yOu can't stOp.
SOmeOne whO makes yOu believe that there really is gOod in the wOrld.

SOmeOne whO cOnvinces yOu that there really is an unlOcked dOor just waiting fOr yOu tO Open it.
This is fOrever friendship.

When you're down and the world seems dark and empty,
your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.

YOur forever friend gets you through the hard times,
the sad times and the cOnfused times.

If you turn and walk away,
your fOrever friend follows.

If yOu lOse yOur way, yOur fOrever friend guides yOu and cheers yOu On.
YOur fOrever friend hOld yOur hand and tells yOu that everything is gOing tO be Okay.


And if yOu find such a friend,
yOu feel happy and cOmplete because yOu need nOt wOrry.
YOu have a fOrever friend, and fOrever has nO end. . |♥|