Way of life

1) Be patient -
2) Get moving – it’ll Increases the energy and relieves the mind and body
3) Eat well – eating small but frequent meals throughout the day maintains an even level of blood sugar in your body. 
4) Avoid nicotine - smoking when you are feeling stressed and overwhelmed may seem calming, but nicotine is a powerful stimulate leading to higher levels of anxiety.
5) Create a balanced schedule between work and family life and social activities.
6) Try to arrive earlier to the work; even 10-15 minutes can make the difference between rushing and easing into your workday.
7) During working hours make sure to take short breaks and try to get away for lunch. Stepping away briefly to relax and recharge will help you to be more productive.
8) Educate yourself about the causes of your stress. Generally, the more informed the more in control.
9) Relaxation will lower your heart rate, blood pressure, breathing rate, and helps reduce the tension in your muscles.
10) Try to do some sport activities on daily or weekly basis

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lullaby

Even if I try hard to close my eyes. Even if I try hard to close my ears

I could see your tears, I could hear your pain. You're a very lonely person

The one I miss, Don't run away from me anymore

Even if my heart is stabbed, even if I cry I know you're hurting more

Even if you try hard to make me cry with hurtful words

Even if you try to act like you're strong. You can't fool me so that makes me hurt more

You're a very sad person

Don't say a word, just love. I know we're the same

Even if you make me cry and push me away. I know you are the same as me........

The one who is foolish, Even if you turn away from me, the one that is stupid

You can't even walk one step, its me

about relationship

2 lovers ended there realtionship...Time went on and the boy got married, his ex said to him "how dare you use my favourite colour as the theme of your wedding, how dare you use my favourite flower as your decoration, how dare you set your wedding on our anniversery and how dare you use our song for the cerenomy"...the boy cried and told the girl "baby, its the only way i can pretend your my bride"

Opposite Attracts

heart venom

The saying goes, if a snake bites you once, it may be the snakes' fault, but usually when the snake bites you a second time, it is your fault. When we are in the vicinity of something that is potentially harmful, like a relationship with a dishonest person, or a person who has no qualms with hurting us to get what they want, and they eventually do, it may not be our fault the first time that they do so, even if the warning signs were there.

It is only after these people hurt us and only when we choose to allow them into our lives to hurt us again, is it our fault that we get hurt again. As this passage says, people can be cruel, and they will be. This is not to say, that everyone will hurt you over and over again, and that no one deserves a second chance, but those who are chosen by you to receive a second chance, should be chosen wisely, and only with your heart's discretion.

"Stop going back to the one who brings you more pain than happiness. It's not worth it to continue to invest your feelings into somebody unworthy of your love. Everybody deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes."

Timing

Wasting one's time is one of the biggest wrongs that can be committed against one's self. Time is our most valuable resource because it is something that once past, can never be acquired again. In order to make the best use of our time it is crucial that we use it doing the things within our heart that we love, with the people we love and who love us in return.

When somebody isn't willing to devote their self to you, like you are willing to devote yourself to them, having a relationship with this person will more than likely lead to devastation for the person who cares most. This isn't always something that is possible to avoid but can more easily be determined even though sometimes it may be after we acquire feelings for a person. In order to be the best you, you must be willing to let go of people who have no interest in helping transform you into the best you, don't waste your time on those that don't.

kutipan dari mario teguh

Proyek Pribadi Hari ini :


PRIBADI YANG KEBERHASILANNYA TAK BISA DITAHAN


Sahabatku yang rindu mendapatkan jaminan mengenai keberhasilan
hidupnya, katakanlah ini sebagai kalimatmu sendiri …


Tuhanku Yang Maha Melapangkan,


Engkau telah menetapkan bahwa jika aku berusaha di dalam keimananku
kepadaMu, untuk menjadi penentu keberhasilanku sendiri, maka nasibku
adalah SEBAGAIMANA yang aku upayakan.


Maka aku mohon Engkau merestui upayaku mulai hari ini untuk dengan
setia berlaku dalam


TIGA KUALITAS PRIBADI


yang menjadikan keberhasilanku tidak bisa ditahan, yaitu:


FOKUS


Aku akan berfokus pada satu hal atau kemampuan yang akan menjadikanku
pribadi yang bernilai.


OBSESI


Aku akan menenggelamkan diri ke dalam ketertarikan yang hebat untuk
menjadi ahli dalam bidangku.


DISIPLIN


Aku akan berlaku setia kepada keteraturan untuk melakukan yang
membesarkan dan mencemerlangkanku.


Semoga dengannya, Engkau akan menjadikan aku pribadi yang kedamaian
hatinya, yang kesehatannya, yang kesejahteraannya, yang keluasan
pengaruhnya, dan yang peningkatan nilainya bagi kebaikan hidup
sesamanya - tak dapat diganggu dan ditahan oleh apa dan siapa pun.


Aamiin

Catatan untuk Tuhan #3

Ya Allah,

Alhamdulillah atas apa yang telah Engkau berikan...

Alhamdulillah atas apa yang akan Engkau berikan...

Jadikan kami orang-orang yang pandai bersyukur atas segala nikmat yang Engkau berikan...

Jadikan kami orang-orang yang sabar, tabah, tulus, dan ikhlas...

Dalam menjalankan perintah-Mu...

Dalam menjauhi larangan-Mu...

Dalam menjemput rezeki-Mu...

Dan dalam berbuat kebaikan dengan sesama...

Amien Ya Robbal Allamien...

Jaga Ucapan... dan Tindakan

Terkadang, kita terburu-buru memvonis dan melukai perasaan orang yang ada di hadapan kita. Namun, hendaklah kita ingat! Ada empat (4) perkara yang kalau sudah terjadi tidak bisa diperbaiki, yaitu:

1. Tidak mungkin kita menarik kembali batu yang kita jatuhkan atau terjatuh, atau terlempar.

2. Tidak mungkin kita menarik kembali kosa kata atau kalimat yang telah kita ucapkan.

3. Tidak mungkin kita menarik kembali peluang yang telah berlalu dan hilang, dan

4. Tidak mungkin kita mengambil kembali waktu, umur dan masa muda yang telah berlalu

Oleh karena itu, kenalilah dan ketahuilah dengan baik bagaimana kita harus bertindak dalam empat hal ini:

- Jangan sia-siakan peluang baik yang ada di hadapanmu, dan

- Jangan terburu-buru memvonis terhadap orang lain

Notes for GOD #1

YA ALLAH....

"I know you are there Allah. I know you see my tears. I know you hear my prayers. I know you are testing me. And all I ask from you is to strengthen my Imaan so I can handle the struggles in life and have patience. I love you my Lord. My Allah. Please keep me safe" ~ Amin Ya Rabbal 'alamin

Catatan untuk Diri Sendiri #1

1. Apabila anda berada pada pagi hari, jangan menunggu datangnya waktu sore. Hiduplah dalam batasan hari ini saja. Curahkan perhatian anda untuk memperbaiki hari ini. Hal ini dijelaskan dalam hadits berikut:

"Ketika kamu di sore hari, jangan mengharap untuk melihat esok pagi, dan ketika anda di pagi hari jangan mengharap untuk melihat sore hari."(Al-Bukhari)

2. Lupakan masa lalu dan semua yang pernah terjadi, karena perhatian yang

terpaku pada yang telah lewat dan selesai merupakan kebodohon.

3. Biarkan masa depan datang dengan sendirinya. Jangan mencemaskan hari esok, kerana jika anda telah memperbaiki hari ini, pastilah hari esok akan baik pula.

4. Jangan mudah tergoncang pada kritikan. Jadilah orang yang teguh pendirian dan sadarilah bahwa kritikan itu akan mengangkat harga diri Anda setara dengan kritikan tersebut.

5. Yakinlah kepada Allah SWT dan berbuat baik; kedua hal itu adalah resep agar hidup anda lancar dan bahagia.

True Friendship

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echoes to January 10, 2011

3 days remains,  i'm leaving soon... leave this somewhat called "paradise" island.
listening to babyface music "nobody knows it but me..." lingering in my empty room which left only bed 1 pillow without bed-cover, ( i have laundry it this morning ), cupboard and 1 yellow baggage with small suitcase and my precious laptop along with small green crunch table... pitiful my friend said, but for me...its fine as long there's music still sounding in this room i feel just alright
..
there's alot wandering in my mind right know, ..

how i can live in this island, what brought me here, people i know, company i accomplish to mark myself in it ( literary ) ...... all ups and down...

one thing for sure, i'm moving on...( of course)
before i remember, its "new day, new hope, new dream" for me being here **last year quote**... but wind of change has brought me somewhere else, apparently i didn't stay much longer here. my path of life has turn course, although i admit it was decisive decision that i make encourage by the people surround me and my impatient ( which i failed to overcome this year, stilll -____- )

but the twist is, one day after I sale all my belonging to my friends and coleagues, I have impressive job offer from Australian expat, Law firm  Finlayson.id.au for same position, he call and ask me to meet for interview and see the outcome for this position ....I agreed, ( just to see either the offer of the salaries is adequate or not **yesitsallaboutthemoneyinsomematter**)...but the next days,..I cant meet him because of some circumstance..... ( not my luck, maybe )

I was very sure and firm that my decision is the best to leave the island and move to work in crowded city near my mum ... ( the main reason that I wanna move so i can get close to her and visit her every week), all this I do for her, I wanna bring her to holy island mecca perform the hajj or just umroh...My biggest wishes and hope to see her can perform this soon, all that Hopewell can achieved soon

for the counting days, I meet old acquaintances new friends and reunion with them, enjoy the free time without work and all thing that matter around it..... feel so relieve and blissful

Wish this time around I can be with my mum and enjoy this vacation ... explore this wonderful cozy island, and try to think that this island are best traits that happen with me last years ;)

..... in my idle time, i was thinking " is this best decision' ? the stress is not biggest,  god gave me comfort that make me work in a company barely use my 80% brain function and access Facebook 90 percent of my working hours,...well not most of the time ;) but if I can take it easy I think I'll  be alright ... the only think is I'm stuck and surround by people with negative thinking makes me unease with the situation

for a while, after 3 days i try to text this Man ( the new job offer bali)  and ask if there's still a chance for me to meet him and talk about these position, again he agreed and welcome me to meet him at same time & place....the next days, again....I skip this opportunity.... Im thinking deeply...why I'm hesitate...why i'm oversleep ( which make me late to attend the meeting) at least if I want I can make it right? why I delay and make my self lazy over this.....well I'm over it then, i wont change my mind I must leave ...

10-12, Just when you feel lonely, remember that you're not alone because God is always with you

Courage

‎"Courage is Happiness. Courage is itself victory.

When you wage a struggle, you might win or you might lose.

But regardless of the short-term outcome,

the very fact of your continuing to struggle

is proof of your victory as a human being."

Logika

Setelah kemarau panjang, hujan pasti datang...

Setelah merasakan panasnya siang, pasti berganti dengan dinginnya malam..

Setelah sakit, pasti hadir kesembuhan..

Setelah sedih, pasti muncul kebahagiaan..

Dan tentunya setelah kesulitan melanda, akan datang pula kemudahan..

Begitu pula sebaliknya...

dan itulah keadilan Allah...

Jalani hidup dengan penuh semangat kebaikan, penuh keikhlasan, penuh kesabaran dan percayalah atas kebesaran, kasih sayang, keadilan dan kuasa-Nya.

Maka ketenangan akan selalu hadir di hati kita.

ADAB ADAB TIDUR

Assalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh...

Pertama: Tidurlah dalam keadaan berwudhu.
Hal ini berdasarkan hadits Al Baro’ bin ‘Azib, Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,
إِذَا أَتَيْتَ مَضْجَعَكَ فَتَوَضَّأْ وُضُوءَكَ لِلصَّلاَةِ ، ثُمَّ اضْطَجِعْ عَلَى شِقِّكَ الأَيْمَنِ
“Jika kamu mendatangi tempat tidurmu maka wudhulah seperti wudhu untuk shalat, lalu berbaringlah pada sisi kanan badanmu” (HR. Bukhari no. 247 dan Muslim no. 2710)

Kedua: Tidur berbaring pada sisi kanan.
Hal ini berdasarkan hadits di atas. Adapun manfaatnya sebagaimana disebutkan oleh Ibnul Qayyim, “Tidur berbaring pada sisi kanan dianjurkan dalam Islam agar seseorang tidak kesusahan untuk bangun shalat malam. Tidur pada sisi kanan lebih bermanfaat pada jantung. Sedangkan tidur pada sisi kiri berguna bagi badan (namun membuat seseorang semakin malas)” (Zaadul Ma’ad, 1/321-322).

Ketiga: Meniup kedua telapak tangan sambil membaca surat Al Ikhlash (qul huwallahu ahad), surat Al Falaq (qul a’udzu bi robbil falaq), dan surat An Naas (qul a’udzu bi robbinnaas), masing-masing sekali. Setelah itu mengusap kedua tangan tersebut ke wajah dan bagian tubuh yang dapat dijangkau. Hal ini dilakukan sebanyak tiga kali. Inilah yang dicontohkan oleh Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam sebagaimana dikatakan oleh istrinya ‘Aisyah.
Dari ‘Aisyah, beliau radhiyallahu ‘anha berkata,
كَانَ إِذَا أَوَى إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ كُلَّ لَيْلَةٍ جَمَعَ كَفَّيْهِ ثُمَّ نَفَثَ فِيهِمَا فَقَرَأَ فِيهِمَا ( قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ ) وَ ( قُلْ أَعُوذُ بِرَبِّ الْفَلَقِ ) وَ ( قُلْ أَعُوذُ بِرَبِّ النَّاسِ ) ثُمَّ يَمْسَحُ بِهِمَا مَا اسْتَطَاعَ مِنْ جَسَدِهِ يَبْدَأُ بِهِمَا عَلَى رَأْسِهِ وَوَجْهِهِ وَمَا أَقْبَلَ مِنْ جَسَدِهِ يَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ ثَلاَثَ مَرَّاتٍ
“Nabi shallallahu ’alaihi wa sallam ketika berada di tempat tidur di setiap malam, beliau mengumpulkan kedua telapak tangannya lalu kedua telapak tangan tersebut ditiup dan dibacakan ’Qul huwallahu ahad’ (surat Al Ikhlash), ’Qul a’udzu birobbil falaq’ (surat Al Falaq) dan ’Qul a’udzu birobbin naas’ (surat An Naas). Kemudian beliau mengusapkan kedua telapak tangan tadi pada anggota tubuh yang mampu dijangkau dimulai dari kepala, wajah, dan tubuh bagian depan. Beliau melakukan yang demikian sebanyak tiga kali.” (HR. Bukhari no. 5017). Membaca Al Qur’an sebagaimana yang dicontohkan oleh Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam ini lebih menenangkan hati dan pikiran daripada sekedar mendengarkan alunan musik.

Keempat: Membaca ayat kursi sebelum tidur.
Dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu 'anhu berkata,
وَكَّلَنِى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم - بِحِفْظِ زَكَاةِ رَمَضَانَ ، فَأَتَانِى آتٍ ، فَجَعَلَ يَحْثُو مِنَ الطَّعَامِ ، فَأَخَذْتُهُ فَقُلْتُ لأَرْفَعَنَّكَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم - . فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ فَقَالَ إِذَا أَوَيْتَ إِلَى فِرَاشِكَ فَاقْرَأْ آيَةَ الْكُرْسِىِّ لَنْ يَزَالَ عَلَيْكَ مِنَ اللَّهِ حَافِظٌ ، وَلاَ يَقْرَبُكَ شَيْطَانٌ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ . فَقَالَ النَّبِىُّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم - « صَدَقَكَ وَهْوَ كَذُوبٌ ، ذَاكَ شَيْطَانٌ »
Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam menugaskan aku menjaga harta zakat Ramadhan kemudian ada orang yang datang mencuri makanan namun aku merebutnya kembali, lalu aku katakan, "Aku pasti akan mengadukan kamu kepada Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam". Lalu Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu 'anhu menceritakan suatu hadits berkenaan masalah ini. Selanjutnya orang yang datang kepadanya tadi berkata, "Jika kamu hendak berbaring di atas tempat tidurmu, bacalah ayat Al Kursi karena dengannya kamu selalu dijaga oleh Allah Ta'ala dan syetan tidak akan dapat mendekatimu sampai pagi". Maka Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda, "Benar apa yang dikatakannya padahal dia itu pendusta. Dia itu syetan". (HR. Bukhari no. 3275)

Kelima: Membaca do’a sebelum tidur “Bismika allahumma amuutu wa ahyaa”.
Dari Hudzaifah, ia berkata,
كَانَ النَّبِىُّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم - إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَنَامَ قَالَ « بِاسْمِكَ اللَّهُمَّ أَمُوتُ وَأَحْيَا » . وَإِذَا اسْتَيْقَظَ مِنْ مَنَامِهِ قَالَ « الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِى أَحْيَانَا بَعْدَ مَا أَمَاتَنَا ، وَإِلَيْهِ النُّشُورُ »
“Apabila Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam hendak tidur, beliau mengucapkan: 'Bismika allahumma amuutu wa ahya (Dengan nama-Mu, Ya Allah aku mati dan aku hidup).' Dan apabila bangun tidur, beliau mengucapkan: "Alhamdulillahilladzii ahyaana ba'da maa amatana wailaihi nusyur (Segala puji bagi Allah yang telah menghidupkan kami setelah mematikan kami, dan kepada-Nya lah tempat kembali).” (HR. Bukhari no. 6324)
Masih ada beberapa dzikir sebelum tidur lainnya yang tidak kami sebutkan dalam tulisan kali ini. Silakan menelaahnya di buku Hisnul Muslim, Syaikh Sa’id bin Wahf Al Qohthoni.

Keenam: Sebisa mungkin membiasakan tidur di awal malam (tidak sering begadang) jika tidak ada kepentingan yang bermanfaat.
Diriwayatkan dari Abi Barzah, beliau berkata,
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ – صلى الله عليه وسلم – كَانَ يَكْرَهُ النَّوْمَ قَبْلَ الْعِشَاءِ وَالْحَدِيثَ بَعْدَهَا
“Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam membenci tidur sebelum shalat ‘Isya dan ngobrol-ngobrol setelahnya.” (HR. Bukhari no. 568)
Ibnu Baththol menjelaskan, “Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam tidak suka begadang setelah shalat ‘Isya karena beliau sangat ingin melaksanakan shalat malam dan khawatir jika sampai luput dari shalat shubuh berjama’ah. ‘Umar bin Al Khottob sampai-sampai pernah memukul orang yang begadang setelah shalat Isya, beliau mengatakan, “Apakah kalian sekarang begadang di awal malam, nanti di akhir malam tertidur lelap?!” (Syarh Al Bukhari, Ibnu Baththol, 3/278, Asy Syamilah)

Wassalamu'laikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh..

Human Resources

When I became an HR professional, I quickly realized that my job affects lives. From correcting payroll errors to handling terminations, the issues I address have the potential to change the way individuals in my organization work, interact, develop, and live. Because HR ensures compliance with laws and implements policies and procedures, I find that HR receives a negative reputation as just a policing department that restricts employees and keeps employee records. This perception has also been popularized in the media (Toby from The Office, anyone?).

To avoid falling into the HR rut of being perceived as a strict, robotic naysayer and transform HR to a valuable resource to both employees and the organization, I offer these three tips for how I have been able to work to change the face of HR.

1. Be a reliable, visible and approachable resource for all staff.

HR professionals have a unique relationship with employees and managers. Central to my efforts to position HR as a valuable resource in my organization has been ensuring that HR *always* keeps information confidential. This serves two purposes: 1) Confidentiality and discretion are essential in establishing credibility. When managers and employees trust that I will only share their information as they direct, they use HR as an avenue to solve issues rather than resorting to more problematic methods such as complaining to coworkers, underperforming, resigning or seeking legal advice. 2) HR assumes the responsibility for compliance with laws and a tremendous amount of laws pertaining to HR require the organization to keep employee information confidential.

Following this golden rule, I have an open-door policy and walk around from time to time so that people are aware that I represent more than just a paper-pushing department. My primary job as an HR professional is to successfully maintain the greatest asset of the organization: human capital. If people are unhappy, I want to make sure they know that they can turn to me before looking elsewhere. When I take 20 minutes to walk around my building, I am always amazed that I am stopped at least three to five times by employees who were reminded to set up a time to speak with me or hand in an essential form simply because of my presence. This regular practice gives me an opportunity to show my colleagues that I am approachable and fully invested in supporting them from more than just my office desk.

2. Use mistakes as a way to gain respect.

Making mistakes, especially in HR, won’t grant you any fanfare. However, I have found that my own missteps can be opportunities to better understand a colleague’s background or improve an outdated system. Striving for a proactive, solutions-oriented approach, along with an apologetic and sincere tone has helped to position me and my team as department that addresses any issue head on.

When I transitioned into the role of HR Manager at my organization, I took an opportunity at a leadership meeting to acknowledge the previous challenges of the HR department and to let organizational leaders know that HR is committed to being used as a effective resource for the organization. After the meeting, several leaders approached me to both bring up issues and also to thank me for the transparency and the commitment to overcoming past issues. This simple act set the expectation for leaders and I have found that HR is greater utilized, supported and included in strategic decision making.

3. Build bridges between employees and management.

This is admittedly one of the biggest difficulties I face. For example, let’s say I receive an email from a manager complaining that an employee has been insubordinate. The manager feels that the only resolution is to move to terminate. As I read the email, the aforementioned employee walks through my door with tears in their eyes alleging that their supervisor has been treating them unfairly and would like to file a formal grievance. In times like this, it is vital  for me to remain objective and position HR as a neutral party with an interest in supporting a resolution. It has been helpful to me to reiterate to both the manager and the employee (and remind myself) that my role in the process is to understand the facts and to uphold the policies and procedures of the organization and compliance with local and federal laws.

Working with people and understanding behavior is for me at the heart of HR.  When I take time to clarify the emotional reactions of individuals through a combination of listening and empathizing, I gain the respect of each party involved while working to get at the root cause of the conflict. I find that asking specific questions, restating facts, and working to hold individuals accountable for their words and actions also helps to ease the conflict and help each party work towards a solution that does not involve a lengthy grievance process or trigger a complaint if a wrongful termination is initiated.

Until I worked in HR, negative depictions of HR professionals in the media and among my colleagues led me to incorrectly view the department as limiting, emotionless, and automated. Learning from valuable experiences in the trenches, I now understand the enormous responsibility and impact that I as an HR representative can have on the overall effectiveness of my organization. To rebrand HR in my organization, I have balanced a personable, customer service approach with the realities of implementing HR policies and procedures. My hope is for others to do their part to help change the face of HR and in turn, use HR as a valuable mechanism for maximizing organizational impact.

Wedding Ring

Many people who do not know the reason why the wedding ring embedded in the ring finger ...?

confused! maybe the following article can give a little explanation though not logically..

sources:http://id.shvoong.com/society-and-news/news-items/1844514-rahasia-cincin-kawin-dan-jari/##ixzz1iDoDh0ZH

first both middle fingers bent into the

then, the other 4 fingers (index finger, thumb, kelingkin and ring finger?) Each - theirtips to tips.

The game starts, 5 pairs of fingers but only 1 pair of integral ...

Try open your thumb, thumb menwakili parents, the thumb can be opened becauseall human beings experience pain and die. Thus, our parents will leave us one day.

Close up your thumb, then open your second finger, the finger represent brothersand sisters, they have their own family, so they too will leave us.

Now lid back of your index finger, open the little finger, representing the children.sooner or later the children will also be leaving us.

Next,, close your little finger, ring finger you open a place where we put your weddingring, you will be surprised because the finger will not be opened. Because the ring finger represents the husband and wife, during your life and your spouse will continue to cling to one another.

How! ?? see, Coincidence or not, that would really be an inspiration, so, blessed are who already have a partner. Since it was taken from the rib of your valuable time. Have A Nice Day!

The most grateful of people to Allaah are those who are most grateful to other people

A strong person knows how to keep their life in order, Even with tears in their eyes,they still manage to say "Alhamdulillah with a Smile". Whatever we have in our hands, significant or insignificant, prayer can make a difference. Have you prayed today?

Nobody has the power to make things perfect. But everyone is given countless chances to make things right.

Life always surprises us. Good thing may turn into a bad thing but bad thing may also turn into a better thing.

It's not always about trying to fix something broken. It's also about starting all over & creating something better.

We can’t always expect things to stay the same. Everything changes unexpectedly & we just can’t avoid it.

One of the hardest thing in life is forcing ourselves to forget the things that made us happy just because it's over.

TOMORROW is not PROMISED, YESTERDAY is GONE,

and TODAY is here. Never make the same MISTAKE twice.

Keep the smile, leave the tear. Think of joy, forget the fear. Be joyous, because it's a new year ! Happy new year

In life, some people will say goodbye. But I always remember, when one says goodbye, another one will come and say hello.

another thing about LOVE

When we love someone a lot of times the best way to show it is to not only let them use their own wings to fly, but is also to encourage them to fly as well. Loving someone isn't about keeping them all to yourself so that the world isn't able to see their light shine bright, but is instead holding them up as a candle to the world to create more light. Seeing someone that you love happy will make one feel a thousand times more fulfilled than them being happy themselves alone.

Never be afraid to let your love's light shine bright. You will quickly realize how important it is that when you are in a relationship with someone, seeing them happy makes you just as happy, while seeing them sad or angry will also affect you in those ways. Positive energy produces positive energy, while negative energy produces the opposite.