Everyone has a dark side. That's what people often say. In fact, a famous American humorist and author, Mark Twain, as to say, "Everyone is a moon and has a dark side he never shown to anybody" (Every man is like the moon, has a dark side which he never show it to people other).
Two face
Apparently, what Mark Twain said is true. In fact, more than we need to realize, this is a dark side to watch. The problem, in a state of control, this is the part that often robs glory and success that began painstakingly years.
We take an example, starting from an athlete, artist, politician to a religious leader who had the reputation of so famous, eventually destroyed by his own dark side. Usually the general public began to blaspheme and steer clear of them, when the dark side is revealed. And, ever the dark side will continue to be an interesting mystery to be revealed.
Talk about the dark side of this is interesting. Do you remember the famous legendary story titled Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde works of leading British writer, Robert Louis Stevenson?
In this story is told about a prominent doctor who has a two-sided personality. At one point, he is a doctor who helped and helping people, saving lives people.However, after drinking certain potions, he was transformed into an angel of death of death is dangerous.
Still have a relationship with this story, is the movie box office a few years ago that is Star Wars. In one story the series Return of the Sith, told about how a Jedi named Anakin Skywalkers respectable life which then turned into a violent and dangerous man.
Two-sided
Illustration of the two different sides of the expression
Both of these figures are essentially reminds us about the two sides of our lives. That is why one of the famous psychologist, Carl Gustav Jung, said that in every person there is a section called the shadow (shadow).
Shadow is a dark side which contains a private collection of instinct, instincts, and pushing the negative in our lives. How the shadow is in fact dwells in every person, the real story is the second notice.
First, there is a scholar who every day talking about religion and gave lectures about morality. Finally, so many people admire him because often appeared in public with rhetoric that is so evocative and convincing, especially when he starts talking about morality.
Followers even thrive and many of his fans. However, no one knows, the cleric was apparently a lot of money lying to his followers with quotes from those who sincerely donate money to help social projects. Finally, the lie was revealed. When caught, it was billions of dollars quoted by the scholars from his followers. He was eventually excommunicated.
The second story concerns a director of a company whose life confusing for the people around him. In public, the director who has spoken at national forums is a lot of talk about management integrity and honesty.
He also taught people about the work as worship and advise people about religion. However, on the other hand, the people around him know that he is very manipulative and even ordinary justifies a variety of ways to achieve the goal.
Well buddy, this story illustrates two examples of how the dark side works in every person, no matter how honorable and what the circumstances. The reality is that sometimes rarely recognized and even sometimes hard to be tolerated by the people, when it appears or the dark side is revealed.
Addressing how the dark side
How to address the dark side of ourselves and others? The most important thing, as revealed by a psychologist who talks about the dark side, namely Carl Jung is the realization and acceptance that each person has his own shadow-own.
This is the side that by religion and religious teachings we often referred to as sin. Therefore, it should be understood that it is very easy for everyone to get stuck in the dark side. However, we are not aware of this trend then
must submit to the dark side. In the movie Star Wars, Anakin Skywalker turns into evil, portrayed with great when she let the dark side take control of her life.
For many people, the struggle against the dark side of this is a most interesting battle in most of the struggle of human life. Reality shows are always a battle between the dark side and the light side in us to bring one of the winners.
For this reason, a writer who is also a clinical hypnotherapist Kyle Varner of Maryland, gives tips how to respond positively to our dark side.
First
he is aware of the trend of our dark side. Adaseorang not ever escape from the dark side. Instead they said most is touting that he not be in the dark side of this, is their most easily fall into the dark side of this hole. Therefore, first of all are aware of the pattern (pattern) trend is the dark side of ourselves.
Second
is trying not to fight, but emerge ponder why the dark sides. Behind the dark side there is generally a need and desire that may not have been met, or rather unfinished business in our lives. It's the dark side should not be followed, but responded positively that shows the dark side of our humanity is real. Reality shows we oppose the greater the urge within us, the more we feel upset and stuck farther away. According to Kyle Verner, to realize and accept the dark side first, then we can learn to control it.
Third
is directing the dark side energy to achieve our quality of life. On the one hand we recognize that we have a negative trend that emerged from the dark side, but it's the truth can make us stronger lives. Especially if we are able to control and even conquer the dark side.
Traces of black and white
Many people who once struggled with their dark side, eventually it reaches the quality of itself that much more remarkable. So. try to fight the negative side of us that live in more peace, calm and achieve success without restriction.
