These three words often forget we speak to people around. It would be better to use the word "please" when asking office boy or household assistants to do something for us. So well afterwards, said thank you often forget to say. It sounded trivial, but the person who asked for help would feel more appreciated if you want to say please and thank you.
When brushed in shopping centers or accidentally stepping on toes when coincide on the bus, often seen people turned away without saying the only apology. No one harmed during spoken word apology, which are just feeling more calm. The word sorry is a word that is simple but often difficult to pronounce. Do not eaten prestige as say the word sorry. It can help you improve your relationships with others or make a more peaceful atmosphere.
Staring eyes
Common sight at this time is, someone looked at his cell phone when talking with others. Try to always look the other person while talking or giving instructions. Pause for a moment the activity in your mobile phone while talking to someone. Staring at the other person will make them feel more appreciated. If it is a response on your cell phone can not be postponed, it should communicate with the speaker. Say "Sorry I have to answer this important SMS first," and after that continue the conversation.
Hold the door
This is a very simple action that shows you respect others. When about to exit or enter through the door, try to hold doors for people behind you. This small act of showing you the attention and respect other people around.
Sign in elevator
Even in the luxury office, the scene is often the case. Someone straight into the lift when not everyone in the elevator exit. Actions like this would make the process out of the elevator longer because there are people who blocked out. Instead, wait until everyone else out of your new entry into the elevator. That way everyone is comfortable and does not need to have someone who annoyed and swore that hampered the way out.
Give your seat
Often times passengers are still able to stand looking seats that should be given to the more needy. Although these lessons since elementary school has been given, but still it is still a lot of people forget about it. Pregnant women, the elderly, disabled, and children should be given priority to get a seat. Even in some public transport is no sign for it. Some friends even confessed often pretended to be asleep in order to remain seated even though there are more needy.
Position yourself as the person, if you feel like to sit down when carrying heavy luggage, there is nothing wrong with giving seats to people who carry heavy luggage when meeting in public service vehicles.
Queue
Rushing is not a reason to cut in line with various tricks. If there is a bunch of people waiting in front of the elevator, you can not arbitrarily grab the next to get their turn. Not only are you in this world are in a hurry. Respect other people around. You certainly annoyed if your queue appropriated. Do not do the same in others.
Introducing a friend
Sometimes we forget to introduce our friends with new friends when you meet somewhere. If you go with the mother, then met a friend, your mother kenalkanlah to a friend. Likewise, when you go with someone else. Recommend your friends and relations. For example, "this introduce Adam, my brother" or "this introduced Dina, a friend of my office". The little things make a friend or partner we feel appreciated for its existence acknowledged. Besides opening a new friendship is a good thing.
Busy with phone
At an important meeting or worship, do not forget to set the sound of your cell phone so as not to disturb. If it does not really matter you should not pick up incoming calls when you're in important meetings. Ask permission first and then leave the room if they have to pick up the phone.
So also with the tone of voice, try to not talk out loud while you are in public places like malls, offices, or schools. The presence of the smart phone makes a lot of people are now divided his attention to the activity being performed. When are worship should keep your phone firmly in the bag. Do not also make a friend or your parents upset by continuing to play a mobile phone while talking to them.
Greet
We met a neighbor, give a friendly greeting. Do not apply pretended not to notice when cross paths with people you know. Build good relationships with just a simple reprimand. You never know when it will require the person. Because it does not hurt to build good relations with the actions of a small but berart
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