Some kind of Relationship
Here is a very basic understanding of being in a "some"-relationship: you have confirmed your feelings for one another but you are not officially in a relationship. You might be going through the motions of having a boyfriend/girlfriend, but you stay away from putting on labels between you and your "some"-partner.
You feel some-type-of-way for your partner but nothing too real to make it a committed relationship, yet. Confusing you yet? Yeah, it confuses me too.
"Some"-relationships are not for everyone. And just like all types of relationships, there are pros and cons to being in it. So here are 5 pros and cons of being in a some-relationship so you can figure out if having a "some"-partner is for you.
Pros
- You have OPTIONS
When you're in a some-relationship, you are not obligated to be committed to that one person. You could be in multiple some-relationships without having to feel guilty. - There are no set-in-stone rules
In a some-relationship, there are no rules or guidelines you have to follow. Having no rules can sometimes be liberating. - The honeymoon phase can go as long as you'd likeAs long as you are still in the some-relationship zone and not let your emotions go haywire, the honeymoon phase could go as long as you'd like. Just make sure that both parties understand the terms and conditions of the situation and try not to go beyond set boundaries.
- You get to enjoy the perks of being in a relationship without actually having to click off the 'in a relationship' on Facebook
These perks include, having a cuddle buddy, having someone to constantly text you and keep you company during the day (and/or at night), talking to someone who cares for your well-being, the feelings of being wanted, someone to open the door for you and many more. - Intimacy without commitment
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